I found the solution for my first problem 
I uninstalled everything in my environment
and installed from scratch this time with no binary pyodbc
it seemed to work with some similar issues.
maybe it would help somebody:
in requirements.txt:
pyodbc --no-binary=pyodbc==4.0.35
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